This Is My Why

I wanted to share with you the part of my journey which became a part of my reason why. Why I stepped into the work and serve the world that I share with you all now.

Life had told me from a very young age that I needed to place my centre outside of myself. That the centre of my universe was to always be placed on other people. That I was to be good, polite, and please others to be accepted, loved, and valued. The stories and narratives I created from being a very small child from life experiences, I made them mean that I must look after, tend to, and care for others before myself.

I became very skilled at serving others before myself, until my awakening arrived. I had the shocking realisation that this is a way of being rooted in trauma, pain and fear of abandonment.

I constantly moulded the shape of my being to fit into others as a form of trying to gain acceptance and love. Here in this patterning I felt completely safe.

Through my WOMB AWAKENING, I began to realise that this no longer could be something that played out for me in my life and reality, so the unravelling began.

The woman is selfish.

We are taught by world culture and society to place others before ourselves, to place our center in someone, something, or some other place that is not ourselves. Underneath that, is the conditioning and the beliefs imprinted that a woman is selfish. The woman is selfish if she is self-centered, self-anchored, rooted within, and placing her needs first before others.

I am here to tell you through lived experience that it has to be this way.

To remember our center within ourselves, we must awaken to placing our needs first. This is vital in the connection of all our relationships both with self and external to ourselves.

There is feminine wounding. Wounding in the mother archetype energy that washes through many generations of women. Believing that love is something that is not actually love. It is a co-dependency attachment and is rooted in a deep need to control because feminine women have not felt safe for such a long time. Women often feel that ‘too control’ often feels like the only option.

I am here to share a different way.

When you start awakening the body, heart, and womb, a woman returns to her center, back into self from this space. She remembers beyond the conditions and stories, beyond the wounds of time in ancient love. Love in its truest form, love in liberation and freedom. Acceptance is a power that radiates safety and trust.

Deeply remembering the long-forgotten parts of yourself, that have been abandoned, lost, and denied. The parts that were rejected through the culture of life and restoring balance and accepting herself in all that she is in every single moment. Accepting the waves of expression and emotion, that ever-fluctuating dance of the feminine. Here live your magic wonder, your beauty, and wisdom. Remembering the connection to the seasons and cycles of life, to restore the connection to the truest nature of all herself.

Awakening the body, heart, the womb is an essential part of the journey for women to re-center.

Love Rebecca x